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Stop Time from Flying By! Stay in the Present Moment

  • Dec 21, 2023
  • 2 min read


 And then in a blink it is 2024!!  Seriously, it feels like I just wrote the blog for the 2023 New Year.  I think the most unsettling thing about this time warp is that it is happening in all aspects of my life.  It seems impossible to slow time down – even a little bit. Possessing this perspective on time pushed me to look at the illusion of time.

 

This turned out to be a daunting task.  Neither scientist or philosophers really know what time is or why it exists.  And just as I expressed my uneasiness over the swift passage of time, sentiments about time have been captured by poets and artists.  The 17th century poet Robert Herrick coined the phrase “time flies.” Shakespeare wrote of the “whirligig of time.”  Even though these sentiments transcend time, physicists insist that time doesn’t flow at all, it just is.

 

We divide time into past, present and future.  Reality of time rests in the present.  The past is not existent, and the future is not formed yet.  The present is fleeting, always moving from the past to the future.  Modern science has just begun to consider the question of how we perceive the passage of time.  One of the possibilities presented is that our perception of the flow of time is linked in some way to quantum mechanics.  I have dabbled in learning about quantum mechanics and have a basic understanding of the process and outcomes.  However, it is far too complex for me to even try to give a basic understanding of the process.  So, I am going to jump ahead to a postulate that the flow of time has to do with the consciousness of the observer.  A few researchers, such as Roger Penrose of the University of Oxford, maintain that consciousness — including the impression of time flux — could be related to quantum processes that take place in the brain.  We make the conscious decision of noting the here and now. 

 

If we are creating the present by our thoughts, then we have more control than we imagine over the passage of time.  Consider the practice of mindfulness.  Total attention is paid to the present.  It is impossible to slow down present time if we are not intentional with our thoughts and perceptions.  Embracing the present before it becomes the past builds the library of memories we carry.  Then instead of feeling that time has passed you by, you have memories to support where time has gone. 

 

This is indeed a simplistic approach to capturing your time.  But with the start of a new year, it is possible to slow down time to capture all your thoughts and actions by being intentional with mindfulness.  Every moment counts!

 

I don’t usually endorse a book when I am writing my blogs.  But my friend, Debbie Hampton, founder of the Best Brain Possible, just released her newest book, Mindfulness.  This book takes a deep dive into the practice of mindfulness, and the benefits for physical and mental health.   It is a must read if you want to reclaim your hectic life.  Change your brain, change your life, and make the present your priority.

 

Reference:

Davies, P. (October 24, 2014). Time’s passage is probably an illusion.  Retrieved from https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/time-s-passage-is-probably-an-illusion/

 

 
 
 

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   And suddenly it is May!! April turned out to be an extremely busy month and I was caught off-guard by the start of May. There are a lot of activities and celebrations that kick off May and start the Spring-Summer season. The 151st Running of the Kentucky Derby was May 3. It was a mudder this year. We had experienced consistent rain throughout April, and it hasn’t left the area. The horses in that race are incredibly beautiful even when they covered in mud! Sovereignty, a three-year-old colt was the winner!! In a move I applaud, the owner of this beautiful horse was asked if they were going to have him run in the Preakness, the second leg of the Triple Crown. This owner deferred his answer because he wanted to talk to his team, but most of all, he wanted to see how Sovereignty was doing. The Preakness is only a couple of weeks from the Kentucky Derby and the lure of winning the Triple Cown has resulted in some bad decisions about entering a horse that hadn’t recovered from the Derby. May 4, was the 27th Flying Pig Marathon. If you have been following me for a while, you would know that my husband Russ and I volunteered at the race, running a fluid station for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society for 25 years. This race is amazing. Last year it was voted as one of the Best Marathons in the Country. I watched from the comfort of my dry home (still raining) and finally got to see what happens at the finish line. The stories of the runners were great! This race was the first time that the male winner had ever run a full marathon! The female winner had run many marathons, but this was the first time that she ran the Flying Pig! It sounded like she will be back next year because she said she was thinking while she was running that this was the most fun marathon, she had ever been in. (I can’t imagine even thinking while I was running a marathon!) Then there was an older woman who had just finished her 159th marathon! She was incredible! Next week she is on her way to New Zealand to run again! Everything these runners practice can be applied to maintaining a high-functioning brain. Of course, the lifestyle they practice is phenomenal for brain health. I teach about neuroplasticity and the power that we possess to change our brain. But to do that we must be dedicated to that change by repetitively and consistently challenging our brain. It is a marathon for brain health that we must live.

 

   May is Older Americans Month, and it is a time to recognize the contributions of older adults and highlight the positive impact they have on communities. The 2025 theme is “Flip the Script on Aging” encouraging individuals and communities to challenge negative stereotypes and celebrate the diverse experiences of aging. Celebrations often involve community events workshops, and activities designed to engage and connect older adults.

 

   I am booking online and in-person presentations for June. Topics are extensive. Contact me at patricia@myboomerbrain.com if you would like to discuss a presentation for an event or organization.Enjoy the renewal of May.

 

My very best, Pat

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